Can Parents Be Effective Tennis Coaches?

My Daddy My Coach - tennis lessons for parents and coaches

When I decided to teach tennis to my children, it was likely one of the most exciting and “scary” choices I’d ever made.

I wanted to introduce them to a sport they might love and enjoy for the rest of their lives.

It all began when my wife and I realized that no one would ever be as passionate about teaching our children as we, the parents, would be.

At that time, I had been a tennis player for many years and a newly certified, enthusiastic coach. I began taking my two daughters, then aged 4 and 5 respectively, onto the court to show them some fun hand-eye coordination tennis drills that kids seem to love.

In the beginning, it was all about fun games: hitting the (sponge) ball over the net and counting how many times they could do it, catching and throwing, chasing each other around the court – everything to make them excited and happy to get back on the court the next day. 

Technique didn’t matter. As long as they enjoyed being on the court with me and hitting balls, it was all good.

My goal was to get them to enjoy tennis or at least the idea of hitting a ball with a racquet. I did accomplish that: my daughters were happy and had fun chasing the balls.

But the coach in me wanted to see them begin working on proper technique and view tennis as a game that requires a specific way to hit the ball, learn how to play points, and eventually develop a competitive spirit while improving their new skills.

That’s why I decided to get my two daughters involved in group lessons so they could see other kids playing and enjoying tennis. They would eventually learn by observing the kids around them focusing and practicing proper technique and footwork.

It was a great idea that helped me transition them towards hitting the ball with a focus on the technical elements.

As a result, my daughters realized (by observing other kids in their group classes) that striking the ball should be done in a certain way, and that technique and footwork were important.

Eventually, as I began working with my daughters on the mechanics and incorporating fun competitive games, another good idea came to mind:

I decided to share our lessons with parents and tennis coaches who would also be interested in teaching their children and learning how to do it following a well-organized method. 

This is how the My Daddy / My Coach video series was born.

I wanted to show all interested coaches and tennis parents how I introduced my daughters to tennis, from ages 5-6 until their competitive junior years, 12-13. 

In this program, I share the technical aspects I taught my daughters, the games and drills we played, and any other tips that my experience as a coach at the time allowed me to teach not only my children but also anyone who wanted to learn as well.

Now, my two daughters are teenagers and, in addition to their love for tennis, they enjoy other sports as well.

But my greatest personal achievement was introducing and teaching my children a sport that I know they will appreciate for the rest of their lives.

And they will tell everyone that “my daddy was also my tennis coach”.

If you want to learn how to introduce your children to a sport of their lifetime, the My Daddy / My Coach video series presents 47 live tennis lessons (each between 45-65 minutes long) which you can use as a guide in teaching your children.

This series is dedicated to coaches and tennis parents.

Enjoy teaching tennis!

Cosmin Miholca

Cosmin Miholca

Certified Tennis Coach

Check out my work at WebTennis24 where I share with you my best video tennis lessons, drills and tips for players, coaches and tennis parents.

Are You Serving With A Backhand Grip?

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In a recent email, where I shared an 8-minute video with one of my favorite serve tennis drills, a couple of our subscribers replied and asked me if I was serving with a backhand grip.
 
Indeed, I serve with an eastern backhand grip, and here’s why…
 
When I was 15, I got sent to high school in a city about 4 hours away from where my parents lived. 
There, I continued my tennis training with a new coach who, after noticing that, even though I was beginning my serve motion by holding the racket with a continental grip (which you should), during the swing I would change the grip and end up hitting the ball mostly flat using a… forehand/eastern grip.
 
My new coach decided to take my hand before each serve and position it in an eastern backhand grip. And then he would say: 
 
“Go ahead… serve!”
 
He did not tell me why or how to serve. He just told me to go for it. 
 
My father (who was my first coach), later on, when I went back home, saw me serving with an eastern backhand grip and he could not believe his eyes how easy I was putting spin on the serve, and how consistent my serve had become. 
 
This is the story of my serve with a backhand grip. 🙂
 
Have you ever tried it? 
 
You might be surprised how easily you’ll hit the ball with slice and kick. 
 
I hope this tip helps. I would be curious to know how it goes for you, or if you have any story like this you could share with me. Leave your comment in the box below… 

Cosmin Miholca

Cosmin Miholca

Certified Tennis Coach

Check out my work at WebTennis24 where I share with you my best video tennis lessons, drills and tips for players, coaches and tennis parents.

Personal Story: How to Play Against Higher Ranked Tennis Player

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Does competing against higher-ranked players make you feel worried and nervous before the match?

Here’s a story from when I was in my late 20s, competing in a local tournament:

Before a match, as I was entering the tennis club, the lady at the front desk, who knew me, told me that it should not take me more than 40 minutes to beat my next opponent.
Her statement put so much pressure on me that all I could think of was how embarrassed I would be if I were to face her after ‘losing’ that match.

I eventually won, but even now, after 20 years, I remember the involuntary pressure that the ‘lovely’ lady put on me and how much it affected my performance on court.

Therefore, when playing a higher-ranked player…

  • Keep in mind that even your higher-ranked opponent may feel nervous against you, especially if they have a reputation to defend. After all, they are the expected winner, not you.
  • Resist the temptation to play at a level that is above you. This means going for shots that you do not yet control. This would be the quickest way for you to head to the locker room defeated. Instead, stick with the play you feel comfortable with.
  • If you still feel intimidated by your higher-ranked opponent, try to avoid eye contact as much as possible during the match. Keep your focus on your strings between points, and walk confidently.
  • Ultimately, keep in mind that you have nothing to lose against players with a better reputation.

Enjoy the chance to compete and learn from such opponents.

Cosmin Miholca

Cosmin Miholca

Certified Tennis Coach

Check out my work at WebTennis24 where I share with you my best video tennis lessons, drills and tips for players, coaches and tennis parents.

Question From Tennis Parent

I recently had a conversation with a tennis parent, who is helping his 10-year-old son to develop his game.

After taking lessons for a couple of years, he noticed that his son tends to hit a lot of the balls back to his opponent, and the father asked me ‘How to guide him to place the ball better?’

Here is the answer, and tips I gave him:

“This is a common problem with (young) players who are used to doing a lot of drills and very few matches: they are used to hitting the ball back to a partner or coach.

On the other hand, players who grow up with a game-based approach are better at tactically placing the balls.

There are certain drills you can do with your son. For example:

  1. You stand on one side and have him hit two balls back to you, the third one away from you (put it away).
  2. Play a set (or a few games) where he will lose the point if he hits the ball back to you (which means you would have to make at least two steps to get to the ball).
  3. Feed balls to him from the basket while you stand in the middle of the court (just behind the service line center); after each feed, stretch your racket or arms to the side and you should not be able to touch (without moving) the balls sent by him. He gets a point if he can pass the ball without you touching it, otherwise, you get a point. Play first to win 10 points.

The bottom line is that, in my opinion, your son got used to drills where he had to hit the ball back to the coach/partner. Do drills where he aims to targets or any area away from the coach or parent.”

Do you agree with the tips I gave this tennis parent? Do you have any extra suggestions to improve somebody’s ball placement and creativity when it comes to playing?

Let me know in the comment box below. 

Cosmin Miholca

Cosmin Miholca

Certified Tennis Coach

Check out my work at WebTennis24 where I share with you my best video tennis lessons, drills and tips for players, coaches and tennis parents.

How to Avoid Hitting the Ball Late / Off the Back Foot

In a recent email, I received a question from a tennis player seeking advice on how to avoid consistently hitting the ball late. Additionally, she asked if I could recommend any tennis drills to help improve her ability to make contact with the ball earlier.

In response, I have created a video (see above) that not only addresses her concern but is also beneficial for anyone looking to enhance their forehand and backhand groundstrokes by making contact further out in front.

The tennis drill I present in the video is quite straightforward.
While rallying with a tennis partner or utilizing a ball machine, focus on pushing your body forward each time you strike the ball. Make sure that at the completion of your swing, your weight is shifted onto your front foot (assuming you step forward to meet the ball) while simultaneously elevating your back foot.
If you’re practicing with a partner, it’s a good idea to communicate the purpose behind this technique to avoid any bewildered expressions. Just let your partner know what you’re aiming to achieve with this footwork adjustment. This way, you can steer clear of any amusing or puzzled looks. 🙂

I encourage you to try this drill, and share your experiences or any alternative suggestions you may have for achieving early ball contact in the comment box below. Your feedback will be appreciated.

Cosmin Miholca

Cosmin Miholca

Certified Tennis Coach

Check out my work at WebTennis24 where I share with you my best video tennis lessons, drills and tips for players, coaches and tennis parents.